When we have an outlier like this, the average can become very large. Mathematically, we can make the average as large as we want by simply changing one number: with 500 data points, we can increase the average by any amount \(\Delta\) by adding \(\Delta*500\) to a single number. The median, defined as the value for which half the values are smaller and the other half are bigger, is robust to such outliers. No matter how large we make the largest point, the median remains the same.
With this data the median is:
median(outlier_example)
#> [1] 5.74
which is about 5 feet and 9 inches.
The median is what boxplots display as a horizontal line.